Pheromones enhance a man’s romantic edge or ability to attract women. Pheromones have been mentioned in the news and in the media because they are becoming recognized by the scientific community for their ability to attract a mate. I personally witnessed the power of pheromones to attract women. In addition I have received many accolades from pheromone wearing men who experienced attracting more women.
Pheromones also offer an alternative or adjunct to online dating. Today people are turning to online dating services in the hope of meeting someone. However, pheromones help improve the chances that your liaison with your internet date may flourish. Wearing pheromones encourage a woman to pay more attention to you and improve your importance upon your initial meeting.
Let us not forget the joy of chance meetings that can flourish into a meaningful relationship. Again pheromones help improve your chance of meeting that special person. The unpredictability of meeting someone without outside services can sometimes be more fun and more rewarding. In addition, it is certainly more economical to meet someone without the cost of an outside service. You can save money spent on dating services and put it toward your date to show her a better time.
Pheromone results can sometimes take time before positive results can be seen and can vary according to conditions and individual personality. I always recommend men put their pheromones on as a regular routine. Forget that you are wearing your pheromones and go about your normal business. If you are thinking about your pheromones you will probably outwardly display your thoughts to other women. The results could be less than desirable. This is why I recommend putting them on a regular basis.
It is true that you never know when you may meet someone, and wearing pheromones is no exception. Be aware that a woman may give you some special clues that she is interested. Perhaps unfamiliar women may pick up a conversation with you that seems to linger and be longer than a normal casual conversation. I have seen stronger reactions while experimentally wearing pheromones
Every man can benefit by wearing pheromones. However, based on my observations and expertise, men with a calm demeanor generally seem to get the fastest and most intense results. Regardless, all men can get great results if they treat every day as if it is just another day. Don’t get too excited if you meet a special woman. You should remain calm and pleasant and remember that if this woman does not result in a special relationship, chances are another will come along and probably will!
There are several important details when considering the purchase of pheromones. Not all pheromones are alike and results can vary greatly. Some manufactures argue that they have more pheromones than their competitor. I do not agree with that argument. More is not better. Sometimes manufacturers load up their product with too much pheromones that can be consciously detected and defeats their purpose. Pheromones quality should be high so that only a small undetectable amount is used. This way the pheromones are not consciously detected but rather are detected subconsciously with the desirable effect of attracting women. I think it is more important if a manufacturer stands behind their pheromones with a money back guarantee and is listed with a business service that reports them as being reputable.
Thursday, September 6, 2007
Sunday, July 22, 2007
GYM LOVE
The place is hot and steamy, pulsing with the beat of blaring music and gyrating bodies. You see her working it across the crowded floor, and you have to meet her. A brilliant idea: you’ll buy her a drink. But wait a second - that only works in night clubs, and you’re at a health club. So while you could send a 20 oz. Tropical Xtremo Gatorade her way, that probably won’t produce the intended result, no matter how important it is to replenish fluids during strenuous exercise. What do you do?
Gyms notoriously attract eye-catching people. There’s no greater concentration of sinewy muscles and tight, skimpy clothing anywhere… except maybe the adult thriller section of your local Blockbuster Video. Let’s face it, even the most average-looking gym-goer is fit and healthy, or at least will be in a few months. But while fitness clubs are a veritable bakery of available beefcakes and beefcakettes, they can actually be rather tricky places to meet people. Gyms are often chock full of cheesy pick-up artists with sleazy come-ons, or, on the other side, designer gear-wearing posers who walk around a whole lot and manage to lift very little.
But there has to be some way for normal people to meet other normal people at the gym, right? The simple answer is yes, but not without keeping several things in mind - especially if your idea of a good opening line is something like “Nice shoes, wanna french?”
Listen up, all you muscle-bound Casanovas out there: no matter how eager you are to begin the mating… er, dating process, you’ve got to scope out the scene. Some gyms are as flirty as all-you-can drink “body shot nite” at Club Med. Others, well, you’d probably have better luck cruising a Buddhist monastery. Look around. Are people talking… with each other… and not asking whether they can “work-in”? If that’s the case, fire up conversations at will (we’ll cover what to say shortly). But if the atmosphere is more businesslike, it’s probably best to keep minding your own. Unsolicited banter, no matter how witty, can stick out worse than a left elbow during assisted tricep dips.
Next, and most importantly: you can check someone out, just don’t freak them out. It’s one thing to sneak a peek while she’s sprawled on the stretching mat, but quite another to train your penetrating gaze on her (no matter how amazing her side crunch technique might be). Among the women I’ve spoken to, the consensus is clear. One or two quick glances, and maybe even a little smile, are flattering; prolonged staring, drooling, or high-fiving your equally lecherous friends, is not. Of course, even the strongest exhibit occasional weakness - if you absolutely can’t help it, use the gym’s mirrors for a far less detectable stare. (This technique can also give you a better view of, shall we say, the traditionally hidden parts of an alluring physique.)
You’ve spotted someone on the lat machine, you’ve used the mirror, and you like what you see. You’re ready to make your move, right? Hold on there, tough guy. The next step is recognizing her receptiveness. Just as exercise is a social experience, it can also be solitary and serious. Some people just want to get in and get out as quickly as possible. This is especially true at gyms where members squeeze workouts into hectic appointment schedules, or even before the workday begins. People probably aren’t looking for romance in the midst of the daily grind, and while your hormones might be awake at 6:00 a.m., it’s unlikely that someone who gets up while it’s still dark wants to meet anyone, aside from the coffee stand guy.
Same can be said of those who hit the gym after work - chances are they just want to exercise, go home, and eat a salad. If some meathead wearing zebra-print Zubaz pants impedes that progress, do you think he’ll get that number (the real one)? She might have caught your eye, but you can’t assume the feeling is mutual unless she sees you and smiles back. Even then, wait an extra minute, just to make sure she’s not there with her championship kick-boxer boyfriend, who’d be more than happy to use your face as a leather focus mitt.
When it comes to opening lines, we all have our stand-bys. But at the gym, inspired pick-ups like “Sagittarius, right?,” “I’m on the football team,” and “please don’t call the cops” might not work as well. True, women’s reactions vary, depending largely on delivery, making it tough to say what to say. But there are definitely techniques to avoid. Worst offender? The old “let me show you how to do that” maneuver. We’ve all seen this move in action, and might even be guilty of trying it (listen up, personal trainers). There’s nothing wrong with correcting someone’s form - unless it’s used as a pretext to ogle her body at close range, or, worse, place an “instructive” hand on it.
Most men don’t mind a stranger’s touch (and probably fantasize about it), but women like it about as much as filthy bathrooms, back hair, and spitting contests. Here’s something else they hate: guys who comment on how stretchy they are. Yes, women are flexible, and flexibility is awesome - just ask Emoke Ritter, world-famous Hungarian contortionist (you’ve never heard of her?). Women understand they can bend in ways that stir the male imagination - spare yourself the embarrassment of mentioning it.
The last thing a woman wants to hear from a stranger, unless you’re Leonardo DiCaprio, is “boy are you flexible.” Same goes for “great muscle tone,” “killer pecs,” or “nice ass.” Keep the focus off her body, at least out loud. Instead, comment on the book she’s reading or the music she’s listening to. Or simply ask what her name is. Talk a little. Work out a little. Established a rapport first, then you can show her the right way to do a shoulder press. Better yet, let her show you.
Top 5 Least Effective Gym PIck-Up Lines
1) Is that a Detour bar in your pocket, or are you just happy to see me?
2) Nice Glutes.
3) I’d love to ask you out for a drink, but I’m on Atkins.
4) You know, my favorite exercise is pushups. They’re best done with 2 people, care to join in?
5) Hi, my name is Richard Simmons.
Gyms notoriously attract eye-catching people. There’s no greater concentration of sinewy muscles and tight, skimpy clothing anywhere… except maybe the adult thriller section of your local Blockbuster Video. Let’s face it, even the most average-looking gym-goer is fit and healthy, or at least will be in a few months. But while fitness clubs are a veritable bakery of available beefcakes and beefcakettes, they can actually be rather tricky places to meet people. Gyms are often chock full of cheesy pick-up artists with sleazy come-ons, or, on the other side, designer gear-wearing posers who walk around a whole lot and manage to lift very little.
But there has to be some way for normal people to meet other normal people at the gym, right? The simple answer is yes, but not without keeping several things in mind - especially if your idea of a good opening line is something like “Nice shoes, wanna french?”
Listen up, all you muscle-bound Casanovas out there: no matter how eager you are to begin the mating… er, dating process, you’ve got to scope out the scene. Some gyms are as flirty as all-you-can drink “body shot nite” at Club Med. Others, well, you’d probably have better luck cruising a Buddhist monastery. Look around. Are people talking… with each other… and not asking whether they can “work-in”? If that’s the case, fire up conversations at will (we’ll cover what to say shortly). But if the atmosphere is more businesslike, it’s probably best to keep minding your own. Unsolicited banter, no matter how witty, can stick out worse than a left elbow during assisted tricep dips.
Next, and most importantly: you can check someone out, just don’t freak them out. It’s one thing to sneak a peek while she’s sprawled on the stretching mat, but quite another to train your penetrating gaze on her (no matter how amazing her side crunch technique might be). Among the women I’ve spoken to, the consensus is clear. One or two quick glances, and maybe even a little smile, are flattering; prolonged staring, drooling, or high-fiving your equally lecherous friends, is not. Of course, even the strongest exhibit occasional weakness - if you absolutely can’t help it, use the gym’s mirrors for a far less detectable stare. (This technique can also give you a better view of, shall we say, the traditionally hidden parts of an alluring physique.)
You’ve spotted someone on the lat machine, you’ve used the mirror, and you like what you see. You’re ready to make your move, right? Hold on there, tough guy. The next step is recognizing her receptiveness. Just as exercise is a social experience, it can also be solitary and serious. Some people just want to get in and get out as quickly as possible. This is especially true at gyms where members squeeze workouts into hectic appointment schedules, or even before the workday begins. People probably aren’t looking for romance in the midst of the daily grind, and while your hormones might be awake at 6:00 a.m., it’s unlikely that someone who gets up while it’s still dark wants to meet anyone, aside from the coffee stand guy.
Same can be said of those who hit the gym after work - chances are they just want to exercise, go home, and eat a salad. If some meathead wearing zebra-print Zubaz pants impedes that progress, do you think he’ll get that number (the real one)? She might have caught your eye, but you can’t assume the feeling is mutual unless she sees you and smiles back. Even then, wait an extra minute, just to make sure she’s not there with her championship kick-boxer boyfriend, who’d be more than happy to use your face as a leather focus mitt.
When it comes to opening lines, we all have our stand-bys. But at the gym, inspired pick-ups like “Sagittarius, right?,” “I’m on the football team,” and “please don’t call the cops” might not work as well. True, women’s reactions vary, depending largely on delivery, making it tough to say what to say. But there are definitely techniques to avoid. Worst offender? The old “let me show you how to do that” maneuver. We’ve all seen this move in action, and might even be guilty of trying it (listen up, personal trainers). There’s nothing wrong with correcting someone’s form - unless it’s used as a pretext to ogle her body at close range, or, worse, place an “instructive” hand on it.
Most men don’t mind a stranger’s touch (and probably fantasize about it), but women like it about as much as filthy bathrooms, back hair, and spitting contests. Here’s something else they hate: guys who comment on how stretchy they are. Yes, women are flexible, and flexibility is awesome - just ask Emoke Ritter, world-famous Hungarian contortionist (you’ve never heard of her?). Women understand they can bend in ways that stir the male imagination - spare yourself the embarrassment of mentioning it.
The last thing a woman wants to hear from a stranger, unless you’re Leonardo DiCaprio, is “boy are you flexible.” Same goes for “great muscle tone,” “killer pecs,” or “nice ass.” Keep the focus off her body, at least out loud. Instead, comment on the book she’s reading or the music she’s listening to. Or simply ask what her name is. Talk a little. Work out a little. Established a rapport first, then you can show her the right way to do a shoulder press. Better yet, let her show you.
Top 5 Least Effective Gym PIck-Up Lines
1) Is that a Detour bar in your pocket, or are you just happy to see me?
2) Nice Glutes.
3) I’d love to ask you out for a drink, but I’m on Atkins.
4) You know, my favorite exercise is pushups. They’re best done with 2 people, care to join in?
5) Hi, my name is Richard Simmons.
Friday, July 20, 2007
How To Seduce A Woman
We all know guys who are not at ease when it comes to seducing women in real life. They all want women. They dream about women. They fantasize…and sometimes they even boast to their friends about their imagined 'seduction skills'.
But the bitter truth is that the majority of men consider seducing women to be one of the most difficult tasks in their lives. In fact, this might be the only area in which all we men stand UNITED.
Some men may be confident when it comes to thinking of ideas about how to seduce a woman. They might even offer seduction advice to their friends and others.
However, when it comes to putting their advice into action, it very often turns out to be a much more difficult game to play than it is to commentate on. Actually approaching women and letting them know you are interested in them can be terrifying even for those who talk big.
The general idea of seducing a woman is to make her comfortable, to help her to relax. When you help her to do this, you empower her to initiate closeness and to choose to accept your advances.
Contrary to popular belief, it is not all about persuading her to take her clothes off as soon as possible! A successful seducer creates a comfortable situation for both of you where you can talk freely and get on with an encounter that you will both enjoy.
Before you can successfully seduce a woman, you need to understand certain things.
First of all you must believe strongly that seduction is a game where experienced players win and how to seduce a woman is not a rocket science.
Successful seduction needs careful planning, a positive approach, a degree of self-confidence, and a sense of humor helps too. These and other qualities will help you become a winner in the game of seduction.
You can regard yourself as being successful in seduction if you can impress a girl, take her on a date and show her how much she enjoys being romanced by you. If you can accomplish all this, you have a good chance of successfully progressing to sexual intimacy.
But the bitter truth is that the majority of men consider seducing women to be one of the most difficult tasks in their lives. In fact, this might be the only area in which all we men stand UNITED.
Some men may be confident when it comes to thinking of ideas about how to seduce a woman. They might even offer seduction advice to their friends and others.
However, when it comes to putting their advice into action, it very often turns out to be a much more difficult game to play than it is to commentate on. Actually approaching women and letting them know you are interested in them can be terrifying even for those who talk big.
The general idea of seducing a woman is to make her comfortable, to help her to relax. When you help her to do this, you empower her to initiate closeness and to choose to accept your advances.
Contrary to popular belief, it is not all about persuading her to take her clothes off as soon as possible! A successful seducer creates a comfortable situation for both of you where you can talk freely and get on with an encounter that you will both enjoy.
Before you can successfully seduce a woman, you need to understand certain things.
First of all you must believe strongly that seduction is a game where experienced players win and how to seduce a woman is not a rocket science.
Successful seduction needs careful planning, a positive approach, a degree of self-confidence, and a sense of humor helps too. These and other qualities will help you become a winner in the game of seduction.
You can regard yourself as being successful in seduction if you can impress a girl, take her on a date and show her how much she enjoys being romanced by you. If you can accomplish all this, you have a good chance of successfully progressing to sexual intimacy.
Wednesday, May 30, 2007
Secrets to Approaching Girls: Easy Steps To Get Her Romantically Interested In You!
Getting any female of your dreams to love you is like a dream come true. However, it is not always as easy as we would like it to be. Getting a girl to actually love you the same way that you do is something that is going to depend on you and what you are interested in putting into the relationship.
You need to think about a few things first so that you are prepared to approach the girl and get her to take an interest in you romantically.
1) Dress to Impress
The first thing that you need to do is to make the best impression that you can. First impressions are always going to last with someone, and you want it to be a good one. You want to make an impact on her so that she cannot wait until the next time that you cross paths. Get her attention in a good way and be interesting no matter what you are doing!
You are going to have to give it time. She will eventually start to have feelings for you if the time is right. You want to be patient and let it happen. There are, some things you cannot control, and this is defiantly one of them. You need to make sure that you are giving her romance. This is needed in order to fall in love. Do not be obscene in front of her. Watch your mouth and keep your gentleman qualities about you.
2) RESPECT- Find out what it means to Her
Show her that you love her and give her the respect that she is looking for. Let your feelings show if you are confident enough in this situation.
For example, if she is letting on that she may like you in a different way other than being just friends, this may be the opportunity that you are looking for.
You may want to do it secretly if you think that it is not time. Write her little love notes from a secret admirer. You being the admirer of course. But see how she reacts and this may tell you if you should or should not let her in on your feelings.
You want to always start out as friends. Get to know her and how she is. You want to get close to her heart and find out what is going on inside of her. Love that follows friendship is a great match. You are going to know each other better and be able to feel good when you are together. You can find out all that you want to with time and as you, both grow as two people together.
3) Make her feel Special
Making a girl feel special is very important. You need to let her know that she is someone that means a lot to you and that you are glad she is a part of your life. Make her see that she touches you and that you do not want to lose her friendship no matter what. Compliment her often and give her support when she needs it the most. This will show her your compassionate side and she will see that you are an emotional and supportive person in her life.
Share your dreams with her. Let her know your world. Do not be afraid to dream with her and build a life together. If she is interested in you romantically, you can watch as she starts to see that maybe this is the opportunity for her to take. Show her appreciation and make sure that it continues even after you get together as a couple if that is meant to be.
4) Be a Good Listener
Listen to her and do small things for her when she least expects it. Chances are she will think the world of you when you do things out of the blue. It makes no difference what it is as long as you are showing her attention, that she is very important to you, and that you want to do these things for her.
Have fun together. Do not forget one of the most important things and that is to have fun. You need to share the same interests and do things that both of you enjoy doing. Once you start to do more things together and share memories, it should start to fall into place for you and her.
Keep it real. No matter what you need to be honest and open with any girl that you want to have a relationship with. Give her respect and make sure that you are committed to this person.
Once you see that she is starting to have feelings for you take it slow and make sure that you are not rushing her or yourself into anything. Live each day as it comes and make sure that you are living for the moment. Appreciate what you haven make sure that you are giving her the feeling that she is special and that you are totally happy that she is in your life.
You need to think about a few things first so that you are prepared to approach the girl and get her to take an interest in you romantically.
1) Dress to Impress
The first thing that you need to do is to make the best impression that you can. First impressions are always going to last with someone, and you want it to be a good one. You want to make an impact on her so that she cannot wait until the next time that you cross paths. Get her attention in a good way and be interesting no matter what you are doing!
You are going to have to give it time. She will eventually start to have feelings for you if the time is right. You want to be patient and let it happen. There are, some things you cannot control, and this is defiantly one of them. You need to make sure that you are giving her romance. This is needed in order to fall in love. Do not be obscene in front of her. Watch your mouth and keep your gentleman qualities about you.
2) RESPECT- Find out what it means to Her
Show her that you love her and give her the respect that she is looking for. Let your feelings show if you are confident enough in this situation.
For example, if she is letting on that she may like you in a different way other than being just friends, this may be the opportunity that you are looking for.
You may want to do it secretly if you think that it is not time. Write her little love notes from a secret admirer. You being the admirer of course. But see how she reacts and this may tell you if you should or should not let her in on your feelings.
You want to always start out as friends. Get to know her and how she is. You want to get close to her heart and find out what is going on inside of her. Love that follows friendship is a great match. You are going to know each other better and be able to feel good when you are together. You can find out all that you want to with time and as you, both grow as two people together.
3) Make her feel Special
Making a girl feel special is very important. You need to let her know that she is someone that means a lot to you and that you are glad she is a part of your life. Make her see that she touches you and that you do not want to lose her friendship no matter what. Compliment her often and give her support when she needs it the most. This will show her your compassionate side and she will see that you are an emotional and supportive person in her life.
Share your dreams with her. Let her know your world. Do not be afraid to dream with her and build a life together. If she is interested in you romantically, you can watch as she starts to see that maybe this is the opportunity for her to take. Show her appreciation and make sure that it continues even after you get together as a couple if that is meant to be.
4) Be a Good Listener
Listen to her and do small things for her when she least expects it. Chances are she will think the world of you when you do things out of the blue. It makes no difference what it is as long as you are showing her attention, that she is very important to you, and that you want to do these things for her.
Have fun together. Do not forget one of the most important things and that is to have fun. You need to share the same interests and do things that both of you enjoy doing. Once you start to do more things together and share memories, it should start to fall into place for you and her.
Keep it real. No matter what you need to be honest and open with any girl that you want to have a relationship with. Give her respect and make sure that you are committed to this person.
Once you see that she is starting to have feelings for you take it slow and make sure that you are not rushing her or yourself into anything. Live each day as it comes and make sure that you are living for the moment. Appreciate what you haven make sure that you are giving her the feeling that she is special and that you are totally happy that she is in your life.
Thursday, May 3, 2007
What is Love ?
If love is a labor I'll slave 'til the endI won't cross these streets until you hold my handthank you so much.i would never have known love if it wasn't for you.i would never have known of how strong LOVE can be if it wasn't for you.i would never have known of such happiness if it wasn't for you.i would never have known so little and so much about myself if it wasn't for you.
Tuesday, May 1, 2007
How To Do A Resume - 3 Things You Must Remember
Few people really understand how to do a resume and cover letter that works for them in their job hunt. While your resume is a factual document, it is also a marketing tool...and it is your best one. In some cases, it is your only one. Because it is so important, it requires some professional guidance. Almost every job-seeker I've encountered who thought they had a well-done resume found out how wrong they were once we started looking at their resume in detail. A successful cv has a number of factors which make it a success but there are 3 key ingredients that are at the top of the list.The first factor you need to bear in mind when it comes to how to do a resume is proper format. This is the one thing I see as a problem most often with my job-seeker clients. A lot of people have problem situations that create a challenge in producing a professional-looking resume, but with a little thought, they can include everything they need and keep the format. Keeping a resume in format is important for the hiring agent. Imagine you are the one weeding through a pile of resumes where some are three pages long and others are done in a script font in blue ink. Why add to the hiring agent's headache? Keep your resume to one page and use black ink in an 11 or 12 pitch Times New Roman font. Include only the last ten years of work history. Steer clear of colored paper, personal information like your birthday, and bolding or using italics, unless it is in a header. Many job hunters overlook the second most important factor on a resume: the stated objective that must go at the top. Your objective must be related to your abilities, it should be brief and specific. This is your opportunity to say what you are looking for. Many people fear doing this because they are worried about offending someone or don't know exactly what it is they are looking for. There is no denying that an objective is a qualifying factor and helps the hiring agent determine how suitable you are for the job. Maybe your objective will indicate to the hiring agent that you aren't a good fit for the job in question but you have to ask yourself how happy you would be to take a job that isn't what you want anyway. However, if it doesn't disqualify you and you are moved into the interview pile, then your objective could actually be the deciding factor.The third most important factor has to do with the posturing of your work history. If you already have a resume, pull it out and look at the duties that you list under your last job. Does it read more like a job description or does it reflect your abilities over and above what you were hired to do? The duties you list should be brief phrases that show how you added value to that particular company. You need to choose powerful words to describe your contributions, like "provided leadership," "organized," "created," "facilitated," "solved" and "entire." Do you see how these words can elevate the typical "filing," or "customer relations" language? Check everything that you list against your objective to ensure that there is a direct correlation between the two. You are giving evidence to support your objective, so do a good job in selecting your words, and let those words do a good job for you.Knowing how to do a resume is a valuable skill that every job seeker needs to master if they want to take advantage of the opportunities available to them. Thankfully there is help available if you get stuck so that tricky areas with your curriculum vitae can be quickly worked through and you can focus your effort instead on job hunting for that perfect job.
Sunday, April 29, 2007
Keep Your Relationship Romantic
First of all, there is no romance if you can't have communication. It doesn't have to be verbal, just a simple loving glance or a kiss goodbye will suffice. In many cases, even simple gestures like these have vanished from long-term relationships. Smiling at your spouse in the morning over coffee will do wonders. So will kissing him or her goodbye or even leave a short love note in one' briefcase.
Love takes effort and so does romance. You can boost your romantic level by simply saying "I love you", words that probably slipped out of your mouth frequently in bygone eras! Try to make it a habit to tell your partner that you love them a minimum of three times a day. It's not hard at all. Just once afte ryou have woken up, when you meet after work and finally before you go to bed. If you can throw those three valuable words in there at other times of the day as well, go for it! We all need to hear that we are loved.
Avoid fighting in your free time. Finding time alone can be very hard, especially if you have children, so don't ruin it by bringing up problems you have with the other person. If you are annoyed that your husband left his shoes in the middle of the hall for the umpteenth time, wait until he is about to do it again to remind him gently where they actually belong. And if your wife prepares that mushroom dish that you hate so much, don't comment on it while you are having a date night! Spending this time talking about more constructive things will greatly help your relationship.
Have some cuddle time. Sometimes just being on the couch together can do wonders for boosting the romantic connectio.
Take a vacation. Most of the time a weekend off from work and the kids will do;it doesn't have to be a romantic second honeymoon to Hawaii or Fiji. Find a cozy Bed and Breakfast out of town and relax . . . together. Both of you will benefit from the downtime and this will reflect in your everyday actions toward each other.
TLC is highly under-rated. Why shouldn't you kiss or hold hands in public, or in front of your kids? You are not only proving your love to each other, but to the world. And while you certainly don't want to start undressing each other in front of the kids, they will learn positive things from seeing that their parents are still in love!
Romance takes some effort and upkeep. If you ignore it or put it on the back burner, you will most certainly lose it, so take up the challenge and do something today to rekindle the romance in your relationship.
Saturday, April 28, 2007
You may be in love if...
One of the most common human experiences that two or more (depending on how ambitious you are) people can share is love. But, it’s not always easy to tell if you are in like, lust or full blown, forever loving. With that in mind, I’ve created this list of signs that you may be crazy in love!
1. If you’ve ever stared deeply into the eyes of your significant other for more than 10 seconds without cracking up hysterically you may be in love.
2. If every person in your life tells you that she/he’s no good and you’re mailman, pharmacist and local news station agrees, yet you think they are just jealous you may be in love.
3. Guys: if you’ve taken the pictures of the other women in you’re life off the walls, like the Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition posters, Playmate of the month calendar, Monster Truck Rally 2005 you may be in love.
4. Ladies: men can produce excessive amounts of eye watering, nose burning noxious odor from almost any food or drink, and then aren’t above sharing it with others, especially at night. Knowing all this, and you STILL want to sleep in the same bed with him you may be in love.
5. If your significant other asks you how they look in their new retro polyester lime green outfit and you say they look hot you may be in love. or you have a really strong self preservation instinct.
6. Guys: if you’ve ever given up washing and waxing that new car you just bought to watch Sleepless in Seattle with you’re girlfriend/wife for the 20th time you may be in love.
7. If you always remember every anniversary and birthday of your partner, and you’re not female you may be in love.
8. If you think the underwear and socks you get for your birthday and Christmas every year is a pleasant surprise you may be in love.
9. If you thought the Sears Tool Set and rolling cabinet you got for your birthday was great idea, and you’re not male ... you may be in love.
10. If you are taken to Burger King for a romantic dinner, and that doesn’t bother you you may be in love.
11. If you notice your local florist starts arriving at work in a limo since you became a customer ... you may be in love
12. If hearing "Honey, wheres my clean underwear?" brings tears of joy to your eyes ... you may be in love
But the easiest way to tell if you are in love is this: If there is no one on this planet that you would rather spend everyday of your life with than the one you are with, then you ARE in love!
1. If you’ve ever stared deeply into the eyes of your significant other for more than 10 seconds without cracking up hysterically you may be in love.
2. If every person in your life tells you that she/he’s no good and you’re mailman, pharmacist and local news station agrees, yet you think they are just jealous you may be in love.
3. Guys: if you’ve taken the pictures of the other women in you’re life off the walls, like the Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition posters, Playmate of the month calendar, Monster Truck Rally 2005 you may be in love.
4. Ladies: men can produce excessive amounts of eye watering, nose burning noxious odor from almost any food or drink, and then aren’t above sharing it with others, especially at night. Knowing all this, and you STILL want to sleep in the same bed with him you may be in love.
5. If your significant other asks you how they look in their new retro polyester lime green outfit and you say they look hot you may be in love. or you have a really strong self preservation instinct.
6. Guys: if you’ve ever given up washing and waxing that new car you just bought to watch Sleepless in Seattle with you’re girlfriend/wife for the 20th time you may be in love.
7. If you always remember every anniversary and birthday of your partner, and you’re not female you may be in love.
8. If you think the underwear and socks you get for your birthday and Christmas every year is a pleasant surprise you may be in love.
9. If you thought the Sears Tool Set and rolling cabinet you got for your birthday was great idea, and you’re not male ... you may be in love.
10. If you are taken to Burger King for a romantic dinner, and that doesn’t bother you you may be in love.
11. If you notice your local florist starts arriving at work in a limo since you became a customer ... you may be in love
12. If hearing "Honey, wheres my clean underwear?" brings tears of joy to your eyes ... you may be in love
But the easiest way to tell if you are in love is this: If there is no one on this planet that you would rather spend everyday of your life with than the one you are with, then you ARE in love!
Friday, April 27, 2007
8 Amazing Ways To Make A Woman Laugh
There are many men that want to make a woman laugh when they are around each other. This is a good way to make things more comfortable and to ease the tension between yourself and the woman you like. This will help both of you feel good in each other's company and it will make it easier to be around each other.
Be sure that you are being a little silly and giving your best when it comes to making them laugh. If you can learn how to make a woman laugh, you will be able to make friends with more women!
1. Jokes are a great choice to make a woman laugh.
This is a good second way to make a woman smile. You should think about the jokes that you are telling them. Be careful and do not go over board with the jokes that you tell. You want to be careful because you do not want to offend your girl.
2. Be you.
You will be surprised at what you can do with your own personality. Do not be afraid to be whom you are and you will be surprised at what will happen. You should not be afraid to do the things that you always do. You want to feel comfortable and be who you are with each other. You will be amazed at the fun that you will have because you are going to be able to express who you are and not worry about hiding anything from her. The laughs are sure to come when can feel comfortable with you and who you are.
3. Make things a little brighter when you are around each other.
Making the woman laugh can make the entire atmosphere a lot better for the both of you to be around. You will want to make them laugh about the things that you do. This is a very easy conversation that you can come up with so that you are making her laugh at you and the things that you do.
4. You can joke about a movie or television show that is on.
When you are watching a movie together, you can make the mood a little lighter if you make a joke about the characters or something on the screen. This is something that is easy to do and you will be able to make them laugh and feel good about being around you. This is a sure fire way to make the mood a little lighter and to get things rolling along.
5. You may want to try and tell a joke about life.
If you have made a mistake in life or done something that you think is silly, you can use this as a topic to make a joke about. It is not always a good idea to make you the blunt of the joke. You may want to keep it light and do not focal too much on the bad. Just pick something small and use this to make a great joke about what you did.
6. Do not make it a point to talk about someone else.
If there is something funny about someone or what they did, you can use this as a joke but you should not put too much attention on it. You do not want to make someone else look bad because this can make you look like a bad person and this is not the way that you want to make them laugh at all.
7. Do a funny dance or something that involves physical activity.
You should do something that makes you look good but will bring a smile to a woman's face. This can be anything that you want as long as you do not hurt yourself or someone else. You can dance or jump around and do funny faces to make them laugh. This will show your personality and make a woman see whom you are inside and out.
8. Have a great time.
This is the one piece of advice that you can use for any woman and any reason. You should take the time to make every moment last. You want to make the woman feel like they are comfortable with you so that they can laugh with you and have good time like you have intended for them. You will see how fast she gets to be comfortable with you and how she will laugh at all the things that you want her to.
Be sure that you are being a little silly and giving your best when it comes to making them laugh. If you can learn how to make a woman laugh, you will be able to make friends with more women!
1. Jokes are a great choice to make a woman laugh.
This is a good second way to make a woman smile. You should think about the jokes that you are telling them. Be careful and do not go over board with the jokes that you tell. You want to be careful because you do not want to offend your girl.
2. Be you.
You will be surprised at what you can do with your own personality. Do not be afraid to be whom you are and you will be surprised at what will happen. You should not be afraid to do the things that you always do. You want to feel comfortable and be who you are with each other. You will be amazed at the fun that you will have because you are going to be able to express who you are and not worry about hiding anything from her. The laughs are sure to come when can feel comfortable with you and who you are.
3. Make things a little brighter when you are around each other.
Making the woman laugh can make the entire atmosphere a lot better for the both of you to be around. You will want to make them laugh about the things that you do. This is a very easy conversation that you can come up with so that you are making her laugh at you and the things that you do.
4. You can joke about a movie or television show that is on.
When you are watching a movie together, you can make the mood a little lighter if you make a joke about the characters or something on the screen. This is something that is easy to do and you will be able to make them laugh and feel good about being around you. This is a sure fire way to make the mood a little lighter and to get things rolling along.
5. You may want to try and tell a joke about life.
If you have made a mistake in life or done something that you think is silly, you can use this as a topic to make a joke about. It is not always a good idea to make you the blunt of the joke. You may want to keep it light and do not focal too much on the bad. Just pick something small and use this to make a great joke about what you did.
6. Do not make it a point to talk about someone else.
If there is something funny about someone or what they did, you can use this as a joke but you should not put too much attention on it. You do not want to make someone else look bad because this can make you look like a bad person and this is not the way that you want to make them laugh at all.
7. Do a funny dance or something that involves physical activity.
You should do something that makes you look good but will bring a smile to a woman's face. This can be anything that you want as long as you do not hurt yourself or someone else. You can dance or jump around and do funny faces to make them laugh. This will show your personality and make a woman see whom you are inside and out.
8. Have a great time.
This is the one piece of advice that you can use for any woman and any reason. You should take the time to make every moment last. You want to make the woman feel like they are comfortable with you so that they can laugh with you and have good time like you have intended for them. You will see how fast she gets to be comfortable with you and how she will laugh at all the things that you want her to.
Wednesday, April 25, 2007
Why Women are Frequently Attracted to Older Men. (The Sugar Daddy Phenomenon)
It's true to say that many young men, on reaching the age in their lives when pubescence takes control of their lateral thinking, find themselves fantasizing about older females, often twice their own age and upwards. For instance it's quite common for young men still at school age, testosterone flying everywhere, to have the 'hots' for one or more of their female teachers, neighbor's wife or even a pal's mother.
The consensus of opinion reached by many is that the attraction by a young male to a more mature woman is based around the fact that she has experience.. a working knowledge of the male anatomy, and a sexual prowess not to be discovered so easily in a younger woman his own age.
Although there are exceptions, in the majority of cases, his secret lusting remains just that, and goes unnoticed by the older female who still regards him as a young student or friend of her son.
Howerever, as the young male grows older, and gains his own level of experience, so his desire for the mature female wanes, and on reaching middle age, will frequently have his head 'turned' by a much younger woman.
All this is in stark contrast to the attraction patterns noted in the life of the female of the species. Whereas the young girl, on first becoming sexually aware, will hone her intimacy skills on the younger male, but she will often be less interested in him as she gets older, turning her attention to the more mature men that cross her path. But why is this the case?
The Sugar Daddy Phenomenon, whilst oftentimes the source of amusement for some, can in fact develop into quite a powerful relationship, with loyalty, romance and chivalry being key factors in the union. Many women note that a guy around her own age or younger, will not show her the same level of respect, or pay as much attention to detail that his older counterpart will be inclined to display.
It's a valid point that women are more mature than men at any given age, and its not surprising that by the time she reaches her mid-thirties, she already feels more compatible with a male ten or twenty years her senior, and left guys her own age, far behind both mentally and emotionally. Her more mature partner is more equipped to seduce her mind as well as her body. He will be less afraid of showing attention in public, holding her hand or opening doors for her. Happy to allow the whole world notice how proud he is to have her by her side.
Sexually too, he may not be an athlete between the sheets, yet he will feel the need to ensure his girl is pleasured well as a priority over seeking to satisfy his own desires. Her younger lover will no doubt give her "the best seventeen seconds she's ever had", before raiding her fridge in search of a beer. Whereas in the case of her older partner, the foreplay will begin in the bar or restaurant with witty flirting, eye contact and laughter. Later they will enjoy the afterglow together, and whilst the passion may have subsided, the emotion still very much alive.
The term 'Sugar Daddy' was first used in the early 1920's and is described in the WordWeb Dictionary as "A wealthy older man who gives a young person expensive gifts in return for friendship or intimacy". The sugar in this term alluded to the sweetening effect of the gifts, and daddy cited the age difference between the pair. There is no mention of love, romance or indeed a relationship in the dictionary description of the term, yet it is a fact that women are often attracted, even turned on by men of substance or power. Is it so inconceivable then, that a younger woman could find happiness in a relationship with a guy old enough to be her father, who has so much more to offer her than money and gifts?
The consensus of opinion reached by many is that the attraction by a young male to a more mature woman is based around the fact that she has experience.. a working knowledge of the male anatomy, and a sexual prowess not to be discovered so easily in a younger woman his own age.
Although there are exceptions, in the majority of cases, his secret lusting remains just that, and goes unnoticed by the older female who still regards him as a young student or friend of her son.
Howerever, as the young male grows older, and gains his own level of experience, so his desire for the mature female wanes, and on reaching middle age, will frequently have his head 'turned' by a much younger woman.
All this is in stark contrast to the attraction patterns noted in the life of the female of the species. Whereas the young girl, on first becoming sexually aware, will hone her intimacy skills on the younger male, but she will often be less interested in him as she gets older, turning her attention to the more mature men that cross her path. But why is this the case?
The Sugar Daddy Phenomenon, whilst oftentimes the source of amusement for some, can in fact develop into quite a powerful relationship, with loyalty, romance and chivalry being key factors in the union. Many women note that a guy around her own age or younger, will not show her the same level of respect, or pay as much attention to detail that his older counterpart will be inclined to display.
It's a valid point that women are more mature than men at any given age, and its not surprising that by the time she reaches her mid-thirties, she already feels more compatible with a male ten or twenty years her senior, and left guys her own age, far behind both mentally and emotionally. Her more mature partner is more equipped to seduce her mind as well as her body. He will be less afraid of showing attention in public, holding her hand or opening doors for her. Happy to allow the whole world notice how proud he is to have her by her side.
Sexually too, he may not be an athlete between the sheets, yet he will feel the need to ensure his girl is pleasured well as a priority over seeking to satisfy his own desires. Her younger lover will no doubt give her "the best seventeen seconds she's ever had", before raiding her fridge in search of a beer. Whereas in the case of her older partner, the foreplay will begin in the bar or restaurant with witty flirting, eye contact and laughter. Later they will enjoy the afterglow together, and whilst the passion may have subsided, the emotion still very much alive.
The term 'Sugar Daddy' was first used in the early 1920's and is described in the WordWeb Dictionary as "A wealthy older man who gives a young person expensive gifts in return for friendship or intimacy". The sugar in this term alluded to the sweetening effect of the gifts, and daddy cited the age difference between the pair. There is no mention of love, romance or indeed a relationship in the dictionary description of the term, yet it is a fact that women are often attracted, even turned on by men of substance or power. Is it so inconceivable then, that a younger woman could find happiness in a relationship with a guy old enough to be her father, who has so much more to offer her than money and gifts?
Sunday, April 22, 2007
Sweet Nothings
Words whispered into your lover’s ears will have a wonderfully stimulating effect. Due to the fact that the ears are full of nerve endings, whispering sweet nothings will not only bring pleasure in response to your sugary words, but will excite the erogenous zones.
Sweet nothings are words that are full of love and romance, gently whispered into your lover’s ears. Women respond greatly to sweet nothings and having their necks kissed. When cuddling and embracing, try adding sweet nothings to increase and heighten the romantic atmosphere. Gently blowing in the ears, and whispering will bring arousal and pleasure, and is an important aspect of foreplay. Not only can you whisper in the ears, but also try kissing, licking, and sucking on earlobes for added excitement. If you have always wanted to whisper sweet nothings in your lover’s ears, but didn’t’ know what to say, here are some romantic quotations and phrases that you can use.
Sweet Nothings:
• You have captured my heart
• Hear my words as I tell you how much I love you
• You are the only one for me
• You’re beautiful
• The night belongs to us alone
• You’re lips are as red as the most vibrant rose
• You’re hair is softer than the finest silk
• You’re eyes sparkle brighter then the stars
• I’m yours forever
• I’ll never stop loving you
• You are always on my mind
• I can’t stop thinking of you
• You have filled the void in my heart
• You complete me
• My love for you will burn forever
• My heart beats for you
• I’m hungry for you love
• Only your kisses satisfy my soul
• Can you feel my passion
• Don’t you know I long for you
• You’re the lover of my soul
• I crave your touch
• My heart longs for you
• You are my desire
• I will never love another
• You are breath taking
• You take my breath away
• You are an angel from heaven
• I give you my heart, forever
• When we touch I melt in your arms
• I long to taste the sweetness of your lips
• Your love is better than wine
• I am drunk with your love
• I am honored to be loved by you
• I adore you
• I desire your embrace
• Hold me close and never let me go
• You are my one true passion
• I am passionately in love with you
• I long to caress you
• My heart belongs to you
• I can’t stop thinking of you
• Your love is the drink that quenches my soul
• You satisfy me
• I hunger for your touch
• I need you, now
Using any of these phrases or coming up with your own will have excellent results. Though women may differ in regards to how much they like their ears kissed or nibbled on, all women respond to sweet nothings.
Sweet nothings are words that are full of love and romance, gently whispered into your lover’s ears. Women respond greatly to sweet nothings and having their necks kissed. When cuddling and embracing, try adding sweet nothings to increase and heighten the romantic atmosphere. Gently blowing in the ears, and whispering will bring arousal and pleasure, and is an important aspect of foreplay. Not only can you whisper in the ears, but also try kissing, licking, and sucking on earlobes for added excitement. If you have always wanted to whisper sweet nothings in your lover’s ears, but didn’t’ know what to say, here are some romantic quotations and phrases that you can use.
Sweet Nothings:
• You have captured my heart
• Hear my words as I tell you how much I love you
• You are the only one for me
• You’re beautiful
• The night belongs to us alone
• You’re lips are as red as the most vibrant rose
• You’re hair is softer than the finest silk
• You’re eyes sparkle brighter then the stars
• I’m yours forever
• I’ll never stop loving you
• You are always on my mind
• I can’t stop thinking of you
• You have filled the void in my heart
• You complete me
• My love for you will burn forever
• My heart beats for you
• I’m hungry for you love
• Only your kisses satisfy my soul
• Can you feel my passion
• Don’t you know I long for you
• You’re the lover of my soul
• I crave your touch
• My heart longs for you
• You are my desire
• I will never love another
• You are breath taking
• You take my breath away
• You are an angel from heaven
• I give you my heart, forever
• When we touch I melt in your arms
• I long to taste the sweetness of your lips
• Your love is better than wine
• I am drunk with your love
• I am honored to be loved by you
• I adore you
• I desire your embrace
• Hold me close and never let me go
• You are my one true passion
• I am passionately in love with you
• I long to caress you
• My heart belongs to you
• I can’t stop thinking of you
• Your love is the drink that quenches my soul
• You satisfy me
• I hunger for your touch
• I need you, now
Using any of these phrases or coming up with your own will have excellent results. Though women may differ in regards to how much they like their ears kissed or nibbled on, all women respond to sweet nothings.
Wednesday, April 18, 2007
What is Love ?
- Passionate love which involves continuously thinking about the loved one and also involves warm sexual feelings and powerful emotional reactions.
- Companionate love is having trusting and tender feelings for someone who is close to you.
The three components of the Triangular Theory of Love are:
Passion, the feeling physically aroused and attracted to someone.
Passion is what makes you feel "in love" and is the feeling most associated with love. It also rises quickly and strongly influences and biases your judgment.
Intimacy, the feeling close and connected to someone (developed through sharing and very good communications over time).
Intimacy is what makes you want to share and offer emotional and material support to each other.
Commitment, pledging to your self and each other to strengthen the feelings of love and to actively maintain the relationship.
Commitment is what makes you want to be serious, have a serious relationship and promise to be there for the other person if things get tough.
Now Sternberg also uses his Triangular Theory of Love to answer some of the most commonly asked questions about love:
Is there love at first sight?
This is when we are overwhelmed by passion, without any intimacy or commitment (both of which take time). Sternberg calls this infatuated love, Because there is not intimacy or commitment, infatuated love is fated to fade away.
Why do some people get married after being in love for a very short time?
This is a combination of passion and commitment, but without any intimacy. Sternberg calls this Hollywood love. This is where two people make a commitment to each other based on their passion. Unless intimacy develops over time, this relationship most likely will end.
Can their be love without sex?
Ah yes, companionate love, where intimacy and commitment are present without any sexual passion.
Why doesn't romantic love last?
Passion and intimacy without commitment is Romantic love. When the passion fades, and the intimacy wanes, the relationship ends.
This a close friend sent me e-mail:
Infatuation vs. Love
Infatuation is instant desire - one set of glands calling to another.
Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time.
Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.
Love is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you - to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by their presence, even when they are away. Miles do not separate you. You have so many wonderful little films in your head that you keep replaying. But near or far, you know they are yours, and you can wait.
Infatuation says, "We must get married right away. I can't risk losing them."
Love says, "Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence."
Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are together, you hope it will end in intimacy.
Love is not based on sex. It is the maturation of friendship, which makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be lovers.
Infatuation lacks confidence. When they're away, you wonder if they're cheating. Sometimes, you check.
Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. They feel your trust, and it makes them even more trustworthy.
Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret, but love never steers you in the wrong direction.
Love is an upper. It makes you feel whole. It completes the circle. It fills the empty space in your heart. Love is elevating. It lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you think up. It makes you a better person than you were before. If you have love in your life, it can make up for a great many things you don't have. If there is no love in your life, whatever else there is has a lot less meaning.
The secret of our being is not only to live but to have something to live for.
Monday, April 2, 2007
Dating Tips And How To Coax A Smile From Any Woman?
How does one coax a smile from a woman?
It takes but little gestures of tenderness and thoughtfulness to make a woman smile. Knowing that she is loved and appreciated is enough to coax the most beautiful smile from her lips.
Yet, how does one show a woman how much he cares? Below is a list of ways to make a woman smile.
1.Say, “I love you” and really mean it. This is the best way to make a woman smile. You will not only get a smile if you do this, you could also get a kiss.
2.Remember those occasions, which are important to her and give her a surprise. Women would always feel important if you remember the things that are important to her. Catch her off guard and make her smile.
3.Be nice to her friends. Women love to bond with their friends once in a while and they also want to bring their mates with them too so don’t even try to bail out if she asks you to go with her to meet her girl friends.
She loves to show you off and she can’t begin to tell you how important it is for her that you are nice to her friends so don’t put her off.
4.Take her on a dinner date in an outdoor restaurant on a starry night. Eating under the stars would definitely make her smile.
5.Take her for a moonlight walk at the beach. Women love romance so indulge her.
6.Write her a poem and read it to her while you snuggle by the fireplace.
7.Surprise her with a breakfast in bed complete with flowers. Breakfast in bed is one of the best ways to make a woman feel pampered.
8.If you have a good voice, sing her a love song. But if your voice isn’t so good, just forget it. You will only embarrass her if you do.
9.Paint her face. If you can’t draw a single line, get someone to do it for you.
10.Get her a puppy. You’ll probably get a lot of hugs and kisses aside from that lit up the whole room smile.
11.Give her flowers. No woman could resist those lovely blooms and the fragrant smell.
12.Buy her chocolates. Women love chocolates.
13.If you can afford it, buy her diamonds. No woman could ever resist the sparkles of diamonds.
14.Take her on a cruise to the Caribbean. This will probably cost you a little fortune but hey, you do want to make her happy don’t you?
15.Give her a gift certificate to a spa. Your woman deserves some pampering and the spa could help her unwind.
There are a number of ways to make a woman smile and these don’t really have to expensive or difficult. All it really takes is to make her feel really special.
It takes but little gestures of tenderness and thoughtfulness to make a woman smile. Knowing that she is loved and appreciated is enough to coax the most beautiful smile from her lips.
Yet, how does one show a woman how much he cares? Below is a list of ways to make a woman smile.
1.Say, “I love you” and really mean it. This is the best way to make a woman smile. You will not only get a smile if you do this, you could also get a kiss.
2.Remember those occasions, which are important to her and give her a surprise. Women would always feel important if you remember the things that are important to her. Catch her off guard and make her smile.
3.Be nice to her friends. Women love to bond with their friends once in a while and they also want to bring their mates with them too so don’t even try to bail out if she asks you to go with her to meet her girl friends.
She loves to show you off and she can’t begin to tell you how important it is for her that you are nice to her friends so don’t put her off.
4.Take her on a dinner date in an outdoor restaurant on a starry night. Eating under the stars would definitely make her smile.
5.Take her for a moonlight walk at the beach. Women love romance so indulge her.
6.Write her a poem and read it to her while you snuggle by the fireplace.
7.Surprise her with a breakfast in bed complete with flowers. Breakfast in bed is one of the best ways to make a woman feel pampered.
8.If you have a good voice, sing her a love song. But if your voice isn’t so good, just forget it. You will only embarrass her if you do.
9.Paint her face. If you can’t draw a single line, get someone to do it for you.
10.Get her a puppy. You’ll probably get a lot of hugs and kisses aside from that lit up the whole room smile.
11.Give her flowers. No woman could resist those lovely blooms and the fragrant smell.
12.Buy her chocolates. Women love chocolates.
13.If you can afford it, buy her diamonds. No woman could ever resist the sparkles of diamonds.
14.Take her on a cruise to the Caribbean. This will probably cost you a little fortune but hey, you do want to make her happy don’t you?
15.Give her a gift certificate to a spa. Your woman deserves some pampering and the spa could help her unwind.
There are a number of ways to make a woman smile and these don’t really have to expensive or difficult. All it really takes is to make her feel really special.
Sunday, March 11, 2007
Dating Tips And How To Coax A Smile From Any Woman?
How does one coax a smile from a woman?
It takes but little gestures of tenderness and thoughtfulness to make a woman smile. Knowing that she is loved and appreciated is enough to coax the most beautiful smile from her lips.
Yet, how does one show a woman how much he cares? Below is a list of ways to make a woman smile.
1.Say, “I love you” and really mean it. This is the best way to make a woman smile. You will not only get a smile if you do this, you could also get a kiss.
2.Remember those occasions, which are important to her and give her a surprise. Women would always feel important if you remember the things that are important to her. Catch her off guard and make her smile.
3.Be nice to her friends. Women love to bond with their friends once in a while and they also want to bring their mates with them too so don’t even try to bail out if she asks you to go with her to meet her girl friends.
She loves to show you off and she can’t begin to tell you how important it is for her that you are nice to her friends so don’t put her off.
4.Take her on a dinner date in an outdoor restaurant on a starry night. Eating under the stars would definitely make her smile.
5.Take her for a moonlight walk at the beach. Women love romance so indulge her.
6.Write her a poem and read it to her while you snuggle by the fireplace.
7.Surprise her with a breakfast in bed complete with flowers. Breakfast in bed is one of the best ways to make a woman feel pampered.
8.If you have a good voice, sing her a love song. But if your voice isn’t so good, just forget it. You will only embarrass her if you do.
9.Paint her face. If you can’t draw a single line, get someone to do it for you.
10.Get her a puppy. You’ll probably get a lot of hugs and kisses aside from that lit up the whole room smile.
11.Give her flowers. No woman could resist those lovely blooms and the fragrant smell.
12.Buy her chocolates. Women love chocolates.
13.If you can afford it, buy her diamonds. No woman could ever resist the sparkles of diamonds.
14.Take her on a cruise to the Caribbean. This will probably cost you a little fortune but hey, you do want to make her happy don’t you?
15.Give her a gift certificate to a spa. Your woman deserves some pampering and the spa could help her unwind.
There are a number of ways to make a woman smile and these don’t really have to expensive or difficult. All it really takes is to make her feel really special.
It takes but little gestures of tenderness and thoughtfulness to make a woman smile. Knowing that she is loved and appreciated is enough to coax the most beautiful smile from her lips.
Yet, how does one show a woman how much he cares? Below is a list of ways to make a woman smile.
1.Say, “I love you” and really mean it. This is the best way to make a woman smile. You will not only get a smile if you do this, you could also get a kiss.
2.Remember those occasions, which are important to her and give her a surprise. Women would always feel important if you remember the things that are important to her. Catch her off guard and make her smile.
3.Be nice to her friends. Women love to bond with their friends once in a while and they also want to bring their mates with them too so don’t even try to bail out if she asks you to go with her to meet her girl friends.
She loves to show you off and she can’t begin to tell you how important it is for her that you are nice to her friends so don’t put her off.
4.Take her on a dinner date in an outdoor restaurant on a starry night. Eating under the stars would definitely make her smile.
5.Take her for a moonlight walk at the beach. Women love romance so indulge her.
6.Write her a poem and read it to her while you snuggle by the fireplace.
7.Surprise her with a breakfast in bed complete with flowers. Breakfast in bed is one of the best ways to make a woman feel pampered.
8.If you have a good voice, sing her a love song. But if your voice isn’t so good, just forget it. You will only embarrass her if you do.
9.Paint her face. If you can’t draw a single line, get someone to do it for you.
10.Get her a puppy. You’ll probably get a lot of hugs and kisses aside from that lit up the whole room smile.
11.Give her flowers. No woman could resist those lovely blooms and the fragrant smell.
12.Buy her chocolates. Women love chocolates.
13.If you can afford it, buy her diamonds. No woman could ever resist the sparkles of diamonds.
14.Take her on a cruise to the Caribbean. This will probably cost you a little fortune but hey, you do want to make her happy don’t you?
15.Give her a gift certificate to a spa. Your woman deserves some pampering and the spa could help her unwind.
There are a number of ways to make a woman smile and these don’t really have to expensive or difficult. All it really takes is to make her feel really special.
Saturday, January 27, 2007
What Attracts Women To Men
Some guys get all the women. Others get snubbed. Why the difference? What do women really want.Take a look at romance novels. The hero is always an alpha male. Submission guidelines for romance novels by publishers place huge emphasis on the hero.He must be someone the reader, presumably a woman, can fall in love with. He must be primarily an Alpha male. Meaning, he's the leader of the group. Not a wannabe or second in command. He carries himself with confidence. Men look up to him. Women fall at his feet.Appearance-wise, invariably, he is lean and muscular with broad shoulders. The kind of body a guy gets from a healthy lifestyle with regular gym workouts. He is strong, yet treats his woman with tenderness.He is not afraid to pursue his woman. Now tread carefully here. There's a fine line between what's acceptable and what's stalker behaviour. Also, there are similarities between romance novel heros and the serial killers in horror stories. What she reads can influence her reaction to your behaviour. Pay attention to the books she reads. If she's into crime stuff, pursuing her relently and showing up at her workplace to court her can cause her to panic, making her think more stalker than Romeo. If it is romance novels she reads, surprising her with a huge bouquet of roses at her workplace and serenading her at outside her home will probably leave her starry eyed, or at least get her to notice you in a positive light.What can you do?The easiest thing you can do to increase your attractiveness to women is to head for the gym at least thrice a week and work out with the maximum weights you can handle. Build your body and the women would notice. From shoulders, to arms, to abs, to butt, to thighs. Women like men with muscles. Go easy on the beer. Apparently, romance novels typically have heros with muscled abs and no flab. Think that is too much? What do women do to attract men? Plastic surgery, boob jobs, starvation diets just to look attractive to men. At least men don't have to survive on lettuce leaves and have balloons inserted into their chests to attract the opposite sex.Beyond the physical appearance, a man's character counts. The way he treats others. A caring man is more appealing than a selfish lout. Okay, the Rhett Butler types appeal to romance readers but in real life?Carry yourself with confidence. Stand tall. Aspire to be the best you can be in all ways. A positive attitude shows. Keep your cool when others blow up. Your self control gives you the edge and women notice such things. One of the differences between the alpha whom women swoon over and the asshole who turns off the women is not the appearance but the attitude. A guy who growls all the time and blows up at the slightest provocation and is so full of himself is an asshole. A guy who fights for the rights of those under his protection, who takes responsibility for his own actions, who is incredible patient and has great self control is the alpha. The smart girls can tell the difference, but the naive ones usually can't. Still, if you want your pick of the women, better be an alpha than an asshole.Sometimes a man may attract women for no obvious reason at all. The attraction could happen at a chemical level. Humans like animals secrete pheromones. These are sensed in a subconscious level. Contrary to popular belief, pheromones are odorless, though they are sometimes mixed into perfumes for that sex appeal effect. If you want to go all out to attract women, you can resort to pheromones. Not by refusing to bathe, but by using a pheromone fragrances.
Saturday, January 13, 2007
Dating Tips And How To Coax A Smile From Any Woman?
How does one coax a smile from a woman?
It takes but little gestures of tenderness and thoughtfulness to make a woman smile. Knowing that she is loved and appreciated is enough to coax the most beautiful smile from her lips.
Yet, how does one show a woman how much he cares? Below is a list of ways to make a woman smile.
1.Say, “I love you” and really mean it. This is the best way to make a woman smile. You will not only get a smile if you do this, you could also get a kiss.
2.Remember those occasions, which are important to her and give her a surprise. Women would always feel important if you remember the things that are important to her. Catch her off guard and make her smile.
3.Be nice to her friends. Women love to bond with their friends once in a while and they also want to bring their mates with them too so don’t even try to bail out if she asks you to go with her to meet her girl friends.
She loves to show you off and she can’t begin to tell you how important it is for her that you are nice to her friends so don’t put her off.
4.Take her on a dinner date in an outdoor restaurant on a starry night. Eating under the stars would definitely make her smile.
5.Take her for a moonlight walk at the beach. Women love romance so indulge her.
6.Write her a poem and read it to her while you snuggle by the fireplace.
7.Surprise her with a breakfast in bed complete with flowers. Breakfast in bed is one of the best ways to make a woman feel pampered.
8.If you have a good voice, sing her a love song. But if your voice isn’t so good, just forget it. You will only embarrass her if you do.
9.Paint her face. If you can’t draw a single line, get someone to do it for you.
10.Get her a puppy. You’ll probably get a lot of hugs and kisses aside from that lit up the whole room smile.
11.Give her flowers. No woman could resist those lovely blooms and the fragrant smell.
12.Buy her chocolates. Women love chocolates.
13.If you can afford it, buy her diamonds. No woman could ever resist the sparkles of diamonds.
14.Take her on a cruise to the Caribbean. This will probably cost you a little fortune but hey, you do want to make her happy don’t you?
15.Give her a gift certificate to a spa. Your woman deserves some pampering and the spa could help her unwind.
There are a number of ways to make a woman smile and these don’t really have to expensive or difficult. All it really takes is to make her feel really special.
It takes but little gestures of tenderness and thoughtfulness to make a woman smile. Knowing that she is loved and appreciated is enough to coax the most beautiful smile from her lips.
Yet, how does one show a woman how much he cares? Below is a list of ways to make a woman smile.
1.Say, “I love you” and really mean it. This is the best way to make a woman smile. You will not only get a smile if you do this, you could also get a kiss.
2.Remember those occasions, which are important to her and give her a surprise. Women would always feel important if you remember the things that are important to her. Catch her off guard and make her smile.
3.Be nice to her friends. Women love to bond with their friends once in a while and they also want to bring their mates with them too so don’t even try to bail out if she asks you to go with her to meet her girl friends.
She loves to show you off and she can’t begin to tell you how important it is for her that you are nice to her friends so don’t put her off.
4.Take her on a dinner date in an outdoor restaurant on a starry night. Eating under the stars would definitely make her smile.
5.Take her for a moonlight walk at the beach. Women love romance so indulge her.
6.Write her a poem and read it to her while you snuggle by the fireplace.
7.Surprise her with a breakfast in bed complete with flowers. Breakfast in bed is one of the best ways to make a woman feel pampered.
8.If you have a good voice, sing her a love song. But if your voice isn’t so good, just forget it. You will only embarrass her if you do.
9.Paint her face. If you can’t draw a single line, get someone to do it for you.
10.Get her a puppy. You’ll probably get a lot of hugs and kisses aside from that lit up the whole room smile.
11.Give her flowers. No woman could resist those lovely blooms and the fragrant smell.
12.Buy her chocolates. Women love chocolates.
13.If you can afford it, buy her diamonds. No woman could ever resist the sparkles of diamonds.
14.Take her on a cruise to the Caribbean. This will probably cost you a little fortune but hey, you do want to make her happy don’t you?
15.Give her a gift certificate to a spa. Your woman deserves some pampering and the spa could help her unwind.
There are a number of ways to make a woman smile and these don’t really have to expensive or difficult. All it really takes is to make her feel really special.
Saturday, January 6, 2007
Top 7 Things That Women Want (And How To Give It To Them!)
It’s a question every guy asks himself, every guy struggles with at some point or another, every guy desperately wants to know the answer to:
WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?
The answer isn’t easy to come by. There are as many answers as there are types of women: young, old; fat, skinny; talkative, quiet; beautiful…not so beautiful. They all want different things, different men for their different personalities. It’s enough to drive a man crazy! We want to know so badly what it is women desire that Hollywood addressed the age-old question with the movie "What Women Want" (which, I’m embarrassed to say, I enjoyed).
So, surely…there must be something ALL women want?
That’s the good news: There are certain qualities every woman can appreciate. And as men, that’s what we need to focus on most. Not on what we THINK they want, but on what we can KNOW they want. Maybe we think being 6′5", wealthy, and jacked like a football player is what every woman wants, but (thankfully) it’s not. Only certain women want that, and the groupies who only want a millionaire athlete on steroids usually aren’t even worth your time.
It’s better to focus on the girls YOU really want: the girls who make you feel good, and make you a better man. Empower yourself with a sense of choice, so that you don’t waste your time (and theirs) hitting on girls who don’t fit with your personality and purpose. The great news is, if you can provide the basic qualities that all women REALLY desire, then getting the girl of your dreams will be easy!
So let’s look at some things we can safely say women want in a man–regardless of his size, regardless of his looks, regardless of his wealth.
1. A demonstrative value. That is, women want to know that their man is someone other women would want. They want a certain "gotta have" quality about their man. This is why, when we go out with a girlfriend, women give us looks and always seem more interested. It’s annoying but true: the easiest way to get a girl, is to have one already!
Naturally, that doesn’t mean that you should be hitting on girls when you have a girlfriend. No way! But when you are single, it’s important to know how to show value. I’ve got a great lesson on this in my e-book that will show you everything you need to know: how to make her laugh, how to show a talent, and how to make sure she never leaves you.
There’s so much to learn, but in short, you want to be a guy girls love to be around, and that other girls want to have! If you don’t feel like you’re there right now, do your best to be a fun-loving guy who people enjoy being around. Be quick with a smile, and quick with a joke. Even a guy who smiles a lot can be someone girls want. Who doesn’t enjoy being around someone who’s happy, who lifts the mood of the room?
2. A man who needs her…but not too much. This can greatly value from girl to girl, but basically women DO want to feel appreciated. They just don’t want to be obsessed over. Guys, show interest in a woman, and make her feel beautiful and wanted…but don’t slave over her and make her feel like you can’t live without her. That’s just pathetic, and drives women away.
I wrote a blog on how women want to feel needed. Check it out now if you want to find out how to show your woman the right amount of love.
3. A feeling of security. Women want to feel safe with a man. They want to know that everything’s gonna be all right. This doesn’t mean you have to be huge and strong, or have millions in the bank. It just means you have to talk reassuringly to her, look after her safety, and assure her when she needs it that things are going to be OK.
It also means coming to her protection, when she needs it. If someone is being a jerk to her, stand up for her. If she’s being threatened, fight for her. Let her know that you will fight for her, and nothing will get in your way.
One of the best ways to make her feel confident that you will protect her, of course, is to be…
4. A guy who’s in shape. Okay, I said that you don’t have to be a professional rugby player to attract women, but that doesn’t mean you should let your body slide! Part of a woman’s evolutionary mechanism says that a man who is strong will protect her and the children, as well as produce strong children. Likewise, a man who is weak will produce weak children, and not be able to protect the family as well (if at all) It may occur subconsciously, but it’s there.
So show her your value by being a guy who’s well-built, healthy, and athletic. Join a gym, not just to get women but to improve your health and the way you see yourself. Join a martial arts class–who doesn’t like a guy who can kick some ass? You’ll feel better about yourself, making it easier to pick up girls, and her mating drive will only naturally attract her to you. It’s a win-win situation!
5. Someone who’s not boring. Doesn’t matter how good looking you are…if you bore a woman to tears, she’s not gonna stick around–or even give you a chance, for that matter. Be someone who smiles. Someone who’s quick with a laugh. Someone who doesn’t take life too seriously, who lets loose. That shows a lot more value than a guy who’s stiff and serious–even if he is good looking or wealthy. Believe me, there are lots of guys who have money, who have good looks–but are single, because they’re dull and not fun to be around.
6. Someone who’s good with her friends. You’ve seen it at bars: girls always look to their friends for their approval. Get their friends’ approval, and you get the girl’s approval.
Oftentimes it’s actually best to concentrate on getting to know the girl’s group of friends before you spend time talking to her. If you can make her friends laugh and enjoy your company, getting the girl you want will be a piece of cake!
I really like this piece of advice from Joseph Matthews, aka Thundercat, author of The Art of the Approach, in his free e-newsletter: "Meeting women when they are with their friends is WAY easier than waiting for when they are alone! This is because women with friends feel safe and relaxed, so their defenses aren’t up."
Furthermore, he warns that you’re not doing your chances any favors by waiting til she’s alone: "If you wait until she’s by herself to meet her, you’re walking into a situation where she’s going to be WAY more defensive than usual." So learn to be sociable, and just have fun with her friends! If you can make them enjoy your company, getting your "target’s" approval will be a piece of cake.
This is also where it’s good to go with girls in the same social network as you…you already have the approval of mutual friends. The book, Sex in America, says that 60% of married couples meet through friends, work, or mutual activities. For more information on using networking to your benefit, click here.
Finally, the trait all women REALLY want: 7. A man with a purpose. Believe me, women don’t expect every guy they meet to be worth hundreds of millions of dollars, have more power than the mayor, and be more handsome than Brad Pitt. They don’t expect you to be wildly successful. But they DO want you to be headed towards success. They DO want you to have direction. They DO want you to be living up to your potential. And those aren’t bad expectations to have! Remember, "Behind every great man is a great woman." You may not be at the top just yet, but as long as you’re heading there, with goals in life, you’re bound to attract women. And more importantly, reach your own personal success.
I highly suggest you read "The Way of the Superior Man," by David Deida. It details the importance of having a life purpose, both for you and for your girlfriend or wife. The book also explains the very important idea that if someone doesn’t fit into your purpose, or detracts you from it, then she isn’t worth your time. As I said above, don’t just go for any old girl: go for the ones who fit YOU, and who make YOU a better person. That’s what we men should really want!
I hope all of this advice helps you out as you seek to improve yourself and attract the women who matter to you. Remember that it isn’t important to know what the bimbo who wants to spend all your money wants: it’s important to know what women who want to be with you want. Empower yourself by being choosy, and you’ll be sure to attract the woman who’s right for you.
WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?
The answer isn’t easy to come by. There are as many answers as there are types of women: young, old; fat, skinny; talkative, quiet; beautiful…not so beautiful. They all want different things, different men for their different personalities. It’s enough to drive a man crazy! We want to know so badly what it is women desire that Hollywood addressed the age-old question with the movie "What Women Want" (which, I’m embarrassed to say, I enjoyed).
So, surely…there must be something ALL women want?
That’s the good news: There are certain qualities every woman can appreciate. And as men, that’s what we need to focus on most. Not on what we THINK they want, but on what we can KNOW they want. Maybe we think being 6′5", wealthy, and jacked like a football player is what every woman wants, but (thankfully) it’s not. Only certain women want that, and the groupies who only want a millionaire athlete on steroids usually aren’t even worth your time.
It’s better to focus on the girls YOU really want: the girls who make you feel good, and make you a better man. Empower yourself with a sense of choice, so that you don’t waste your time (and theirs) hitting on girls who don’t fit with your personality and purpose. The great news is, if you can provide the basic qualities that all women REALLY desire, then getting the girl of your dreams will be easy!
So let’s look at some things we can safely say women want in a man–regardless of his size, regardless of his looks, regardless of his wealth.
1. A demonstrative value. That is, women want to know that their man is someone other women would want. They want a certain "gotta have" quality about their man. This is why, when we go out with a girlfriend, women give us looks and always seem more interested. It’s annoying but true: the easiest way to get a girl, is to have one already!
Naturally, that doesn’t mean that you should be hitting on girls when you have a girlfriend. No way! But when you are single, it’s important to know how to show value. I’ve got a great lesson on this in my e-book that will show you everything you need to know: how to make her laugh, how to show a talent, and how to make sure she never leaves you.
There’s so much to learn, but in short, you want to be a guy girls love to be around, and that other girls want to have! If you don’t feel like you’re there right now, do your best to be a fun-loving guy who people enjoy being around. Be quick with a smile, and quick with a joke. Even a guy who smiles a lot can be someone girls want. Who doesn’t enjoy being around someone who’s happy, who lifts the mood of the room?
2. A man who needs her…but not too much. This can greatly value from girl to girl, but basically women DO want to feel appreciated. They just don’t want to be obsessed over. Guys, show interest in a woman, and make her feel beautiful and wanted…but don’t slave over her and make her feel like you can’t live without her. That’s just pathetic, and drives women away.
I wrote a blog on how women want to feel needed. Check it out now if you want to find out how to show your woman the right amount of love.
3. A feeling of security. Women want to feel safe with a man. They want to know that everything’s gonna be all right. This doesn’t mean you have to be huge and strong, or have millions in the bank. It just means you have to talk reassuringly to her, look after her safety, and assure her when she needs it that things are going to be OK.
It also means coming to her protection, when she needs it. If someone is being a jerk to her, stand up for her. If she’s being threatened, fight for her. Let her know that you will fight for her, and nothing will get in your way.
One of the best ways to make her feel confident that you will protect her, of course, is to be…
4. A guy who’s in shape. Okay, I said that you don’t have to be a professional rugby player to attract women, but that doesn’t mean you should let your body slide! Part of a woman’s evolutionary mechanism says that a man who is strong will protect her and the children, as well as produce strong children. Likewise, a man who is weak will produce weak children, and not be able to protect the family as well (if at all) It may occur subconsciously, but it’s there.
So show her your value by being a guy who’s well-built, healthy, and athletic. Join a gym, not just to get women but to improve your health and the way you see yourself. Join a martial arts class–who doesn’t like a guy who can kick some ass? You’ll feel better about yourself, making it easier to pick up girls, and her mating drive will only naturally attract her to you. It’s a win-win situation!
5. Someone who’s not boring. Doesn’t matter how good looking you are…if you bore a woman to tears, she’s not gonna stick around–or even give you a chance, for that matter. Be someone who smiles. Someone who’s quick with a laugh. Someone who doesn’t take life too seriously, who lets loose. That shows a lot more value than a guy who’s stiff and serious–even if he is good looking or wealthy. Believe me, there are lots of guys who have money, who have good looks–but are single, because they’re dull and not fun to be around.
6. Someone who’s good with her friends. You’ve seen it at bars: girls always look to their friends for their approval. Get their friends’ approval, and you get the girl’s approval.
Oftentimes it’s actually best to concentrate on getting to know the girl’s group of friends before you spend time talking to her. If you can make her friends laugh and enjoy your company, getting the girl you want will be a piece of cake!
I really like this piece of advice from Joseph Matthews, aka Thundercat, author of The Art of the Approach, in his free e-newsletter: "Meeting women when they are with their friends is WAY easier than waiting for when they are alone! This is because women with friends feel safe and relaxed, so their defenses aren’t up."
Furthermore, he warns that you’re not doing your chances any favors by waiting til she’s alone: "If you wait until she’s by herself to meet her, you’re walking into a situation where she’s going to be WAY more defensive than usual." So learn to be sociable, and just have fun with her friends! If you can make them enjoy your company, getting your "target’s" approval will be a piece of cake.
This is also where it’s good to go with girls in the same social network as you…you already have the approval of mutual friends. The book, Sex in America, says that 60% of married couples meet through friends, work, or mutual activities. For more information on using networking to your benefit, click here.
Finally, the trait all women REALLY want: 7. A man with a purpose. Believe me, women don’t expect every guy they meet to be worth hundreds of millions of dollars, have more power than the mayor, and be more handsome than Brad Pitt. They don’t expect you to be wildly successful. But they DO want you to be headed towards success. They DO want you to have direction. They DO want you to be living up to your potential. And those aren’t bad expectations to have! Remember, "Behind every great man is a great woman." You may not be at the top just yet, but as long as you’re heading there, with goals in life, you’re bound to attract women. And more importantly, reach your own personal success.
I highly suggest you read "The Way of the Superior Man," by David Deida. It details the importance of having a life purpose, both for you and for your girlfriend or wife. The book also explains the very important idea that if someone doesn’t fit into your purpose, or detracts you from it, then she isn’t worth your time. As I said above, don’t just go for any old girl: go for the ones who fit YOU, and who make YOU a better person. That’s what we men should really want!
I hope all of this advice helps you out as you seek to improve yourself and attract the women who matter to you. Remember that it isn’t important to know what the bimbo who wants to spend all your money wants: it’s important to know what women who want to be with you want. Empower yourself by being choosy, and you’ll be sure to attract the woman who’s right for you.
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